I haven't written much on my blog anymore, mostly because of school taken ALL my time... urgh... anyway...
I went to Toronto last weekend to see Eason, and we confirmed we were boyfriends :) I actually had a LOT of fun, and had the best sex in my life. Yeah lol It's weird but it was really great, we didn't just have sex, we made love. Quite different actually. Anyway, I missed him, I was in a good mood, I loved him, and so everything went well together :) He said that my acne was less apparent (yay!) and that my muscles/fat is more apparent (double yay!) I also got to learn him much better, realize why he loves me and why I love him. He said he loved me at first sight... lol and he said he likes that I'm so easy-going :) I like that he's so honest all the time (and naive too) and he likes to decide for me (like food and trips) so it's great for me since I hate choosing! lol
We were working hard on a project for school and then my dad called to say my grandma had died. I got sort of emotive, but it got better quickly. I liked my grandma a lot (we spent a lot of time at her place and had a lot of fun) but anyway, people die and life continues. So I had to go to Quebec city on Friday night, then her funeral on Saturday, and came back with a bunch of great-cousins I didn't know I had. Then Khanh invited to eat and watch a movie, so I went and did my laundry at the same time (I save money that way! lol)
So I've got a lot of stuff to do now and don't have much time, but anyway, it's the same thing all the time!
Being with my family, I realized something disturbing. I think I am "smarter" than my dad. What I mean by that is that I have realized that I understand him better than he understands himself. Sometimes he does something he tries to explain in some way, and believes this reason to be the truth, but it isn't. He doesn't realize he's "lying" to himself by believing something that makes sense to him while it just isn't true, but I can see that... So does it make me smarter than him? I suppose so, but still it's sad, cuz I always thought my dad was a really smart man. He was a motivation for me in some ways, a model of someone who couldn't do things he had potential to do. But maybe now he's old and doesn't think he needs to think that much anymore? I call it lazy, but it's not really his fault... :(
Why do all my role models end up that way? Everyone I thought was smart ends up being... dumber than me... so does that mean I'm like one of the smartest person in the world? that's quite a stupid statement, and that's in no way what I want. I'd like everyone to be smarter than me, but I still don't know how to achieve that... :/ And I have to do it because I know no one else will do it...
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